Love blog on good love, safe loving, healthy love. What is love? How to love? I said it best in a deep true love poem.

Love blog on good love, safe loving, healthy love.
What is love?
How to love?

I think I said it best in a deep true love poem.

 

So what do I want?

A good love. A safe love.

One of the first songs I wrote was about that kind of love:

I feel relaxed in my center
        steady and centered
        at ease with being me

Yes
I feel unmasked in my center
       ready from my center
       to reach and still be free

seeing you
       steady in your center
       relaxed in your center
       being yourself with me

I can hear the song in my head. It hasn't been recorded - so many songs.

I do have it my book of love poems, True Love Poems.

That song, by the way, isn't just about being all warm and fuzzy and profoundly safe. It's about passion. My sense: the deepest passion comes when there is, for both people, the safety to be oneself.

I've had a lot to learn about feeling safe enough in myself to be fully open - and also accepting the other instead of always wanting to improve them. So much to learn. Not book learning. Much deeper learning.

That quest to have the capacity to have a deep love relationship - one of the biggest quests of my life. And there is the connected quest - to meet that other with whom to have such a relationship.

Anyway, back to what I want. Safety. Also caring and tenderness. Lots of other stuff - maybe including shared passions. But over and over again, safety.

The words are easy. The hard thing: living it. I wrote the song - one of the very first I wrote - in 1994, almost 20 years ago. I still don't have that kind of love in my life.


Elsa

June 17, 2012

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Something I've so often thought about
.

Love blog. Long ago, I wrote on
the importance of lessening anger.
Now I've shifted the focus to
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on what's needed to love well?

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